Skip to main content

Defining "Attainable"

It would seem that determining what is attainable would be a paradox—finding the balance between practicality and spirituality, drawing the ultra-fine line between prudence and faith…where does one begin and the other end? I’m reminded of the interns in the office, teetering on the edge between college life and career days, leaning toward childhood or adulthood through a variety of situations...In some moments, so wise, and, in others, in need of a nanny (a really stern one who would send them to bed without supper). God must see us the same way, sometimes.

To define what is attainable for YOU, you need to know yourself, and spend enough time alone with God to begin to understand your purpose. Until you know Him, you will never know who you are.

When I think of the abilities that set different levels of attainability for us all, I am reminded of two people in very different situations: First, the unambitious, snarky third servant in Jesus’ parable of the talents, whose master entrusted him with the smallest amount; and second, Solomon.

The servant’s master, upon departing for a journey, entrusted portions of his riches to three different servants—the first one received a large sum, the second received a moderate sum, and the third, a tiny sum.  He must have known these guys well enough to graphs what each was capable of handling, much like a good manager does. He was right. The first and second servants invested wisely and were able to present profits to their master commensurate with what they had been given. He was very pleased with them. The third one, however, although he had little to invest, did absolutely nothing with it.  I don’t know about you, but when I read between the lines, I seriously doubt his pleas that he was afraid of losing it, because his master was so harsh. I think that was a shallow (and impolitic) excuse for doing nothing with his part. Zero. Nada. If they had X-boxes or Facebook in those days, I would absolutely attribute all of the use of his time his master was away to one of them.
Of course, the master was displeased and threw him out.

Solomon, on the other hand, was entrusted with the greatest portion of wisdom ever known to have been imparted to a human being. Consequently, he gained fame and fortune beyond anyone. He had one major warning from God, to protect his priceless mind and all its workings---to stay away from the pagan women, who would turn his heart against God.  He failed, and it was his downfall.

The third servant had a small chance—yet still a solid chance—to win his master’s favor and perhaps find the path to promotion and respect, and he did not use that small portion to accomplish it. His attitude undermined him.  Solomon had unlimited opportunity for greatness in every aspect with mammoth-sized wisdom, but his wandering eyes turned him into a single-man chain of fools.

The lesson is this: when it comes to determining what we are capable of, we cannot separate “attainability” from “ accountability.”  What you COULD do and what you WILL do will lead to entirely different results.

As you measure your gifts, and tally up your opportunities, don’t forget to pay attention to your weaknesses. Know them. If you can’t conquer them (yet), avoid them. Be ambitious with your goals, but be “real” about yourself—and be assured accountability will come into play on the path to success or failure.


Lead me in the right path, O Lord, or my enemies will conquer me. 
Make your way plain for me to follow.  -- Psalm 5:8

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

#INSUFFICIENT Part 3...Running on empty

Every day, in some way or another, we seem to come up short. Our output exceeds our income, and we are "in the red" when it comes to so many things, such as time, energy, money...even enthusiasm. Being tapped out seems to have become the norm, as we chase every opportunity, pursue countless friendships, enlist ourselves in every new cause, and rack up accomplishments, jam-packing our resumes, calendars, and Facebook friends list until we don't have a single spare moment to ourselves. From the outside, it looks like a "full life;" on the inside, it feels pretty empty. How can something so empty feel so heavy? First of all, "more" isn't necessarily "better." Have you ever been behind a group of tween girls ordering their drinks in a coffee shop? They like the fru-fru girly coffees, with lots of sugar, calories, and every possible option, extra this, extra that...Aside from taking FIVE-EVER (I just learned this term from my daughter-...

Obligations

So, you made it through Monday, presumably... How many days have we wished away, that could have been significant in our life--or the life of another--if we had only "exerted ourselves," as Jane Austen so beautifully described it? So many things we know we should do--yet we don't. Yesterday, my husband traveled hundreds of miles for a 30-minute funeral, but I had encouraged him to go. It was important to the family, overall, but especially meaningful to the immediate family of his great uncle, who passed away.  Many times in our lives, we have these opportunities. Sometimes we take them; sometimes we do not. I have found that I always regret NOT going, rather than the reverse. It made me think -- it's time to look at our social and familial obligations in a different way. Once I read something written by a life coach who encouraged the philosophy of taking each day more deliberately--especially in the way we verbalize it. Instead of "I have to go to the st...

#INSUFFICIENT, Part 2: The underdog.

I think we all experience those moments when we feel like a big fat fraud (not intending to allude to my weight struggles, here, honestly). Those moments when you turn around from your accomplishments and accolades to face your fears and failures, and there you are--just a girl. Nobody special. The underdog. Long before King David was king, he was a ruddy little forgotten youngest brother. In 1 Samuel chapter 17, you can find an account of the day when the illustrious prophet arrived at Jesse's house to anoint the next king. One by one, Jesse proudly lined up his big, strong, handsome sons--educated, accomplished, well-trained for battle...if they had been sons in this day and age, the proud dad would have certainly had racks and racks of towering, gleaming trophies lining the walls of his man cave--scores of monuments to the big strapping boys' accomplishments. One by one, the prophet Samuel looked them over. One by one, he declared, "No, this is not the one."...